I grew up in a suburb called Parkwood, where I spent the early years of my childhood.
I come from a family of seven, amongst my four siblings I am the only male child.
Very early on in my childhood, I witnessed the exceptional sporting talent of my cousins and my older sister.
In school track and field events, all my cousins were unbeaten, in all the sprint events
.My older sister was nominated to represent the Western Cape at the South African Schools Championships for both the 100 and 200-meter sprints.
Denise was unbeaten in both.
Track and field became my first love in the world of sports. Yet, I was not genetically gifted for track and field as my sister and cousins were.
Much to my sister's disappointment, my parents decided not to grant Denise permission to travel up to Johannesburg for the SA National Schools Championships.
Out of fear, the political unrest in the country would risk her safety.
Growing up, we had no comprehension of the political turmoil that was unfolding across South Africa at the time.
Where we lived, schooled, and played. Our way of life appeared to us, as the only reality. Most of us believed our living conditions were the norm everywhere. Scraping by every day, borrowing from neighbors because you were in need . Living every day,one day at a time.
No one spoke of something different or better. Neither were there any role models to suggest such a possibility.
Interestingly enough, despite the challenges of daily life. Everyone seemed quite content.
Denise and the rest of my cousins never got to realize their true athletic potential.
Except for Janice, who went on to eventually become an olympian at the 2004 Athens Olympics.
The stars were differently aligned for Janice. She grabbed her opportunity with both hands when a teacher at her school spotted her incredible talent. The teacher nurtured and guided her, to go on and make a career of her talent. Janice put in the hard work and sacrifice needed to excel at the elite level.
I often wonder, what would have happened, had my sister and cousins been exposed to the same guidance. Could they possibly have followed in Janice’s shoes?
The Cape Flats to this day is ripe with incredible raw sporting talent across all disciplines and codes.
This young talent often goes unrealized for many reasons, some of which are lack of guidance, resources, and nurturing.